Stop with the pressure The other day I was hanging out with this woman and we were talking about my business

I just wanted to share some thoughts with you today on the art of follow up The key is to follow up with everybody

So let’s say there is a guy you are attracted to whom you see all the time When you see him, he’s always out with his friends, laughing and just having a great time with his buddies

The following is a conversation we had at a recent bootcamp about bullying yourself This will give you some sort of an idea of what we do during bootcamps

How do you open women in elevators I spend so much time in elevators – in my building, I’m in the elevator 20 times a day

First of all, airports are places that women go to connect to other places, right If you think about the psychology of the airport, about half the time you’re traveling for business, and the other half you’re traveling for pleasure

During the ten years I’ve been coaching women, I’ve worked with many successful career women Something that is very common among them is that they forget how to flirt

In life, we never talk about ‘if’ You all know how I feel about people that live their lives according to ‘if’: IF I can do this, IF I can do that… A few weeks ago we did a blog asking if you could go back and actually meet one of your childhood crushes, who would it be

If you’re a woman, how do you know when a man is attracted to you Are you a woman who believes that if a man doesn’t approach you that he is not interested in you

what image do you outwardly project to the world What do other people think of you

Rich is an intern that works for me He grew up in a nice, protected, suburban household in Naples, Florida

I’ve been asked many times to do a blog about working out Personally, I’m a workout nut: I do yoga; I run on the treadmill, I hike hills, I swim, and I do weights

I have a confession as a man I need to make to all the women: We men are clueless about anything subliminal that you do We really are

So when men hang out together, it’s called a mantourage: four or five guys walking around – if you’ve ever seen the TV show Entourage – every man has his version of their own entourage It’s called a mantourage

I’m always talking about the power of the network – and no, not the one on the Verizon commercial I don’t even use Verizon – I use T-Mobile

No, I’m not talking about Donny Deutsch’s show The Big Idea – I’m talking about the big payoff We are always looking to find the big payoff

There’s a new workout sweeping the nation – it’s called sexiovascular For those of you who don’t know what it is, it’s a combination cardiovascular, Pilates, yoga, and weight training – all in one

Now that it's summertime –at least for a few more weeks Summertime is like pickup season

Let’s talk about single mothers I was with the guys today (“the guys” are Rey and Rich – Rey the assistant and Rich the intern

I’ve seen this for so long – and every single guy does this What do they do

We just had a great discussion about the definition of social anxiety I’m going to have Josh explain the meaning, and then we’ll get a bit deeper into it

I’m driving through Brentwood this morning – on one of those days I don’t particularly like What I don’t particularly like is the heat

So it’s been a while since I made fun of the PUA community – I’ve been really on really good behavior lately Some of you reading the blog really hate when I make fun of the PUA community, because you defend it by saying that it’s really good for certain things

Everybody is so caught up in what the celebrities are doing – and this weekend seemed to be a celebrity-filled weekend for me First, when I was out looking for a new house, I ran into Donald Sutherland

Matchcom

I first met Craig about eight months ago, at a free seminar I taught We did a role-play exercise and during the exercise he came up, he was charming, it went well for about 48 seconds and then he crashed

I get a great question all of the time from both men and women: what do you do when you see someone who you are attracted to who is walking their dog, and you think, man, I really want to meet them Most people make a common mistake in this situation

I’m sitting here with Rey, and we were talking a little bit Four years ago, Rey came to the United States from Taiwan, and as he calls it, he had to speak “Engrish” for a few years before he really learned the language

I’m sitting here with Rey, and we were talking a little bit Four years ago, Rey came to the United States from Taiwan, and as he calls it, he had to speak “Engrish” for a few years before he really learned the language

I get this question all of the time: why don’t women like nice guys Here’s the thing: most guys are nice

The other night I was at the Coldplay concert and I was walking through a crowd and I realized: there is a term that many Americans seem to have forgotten It’s a term that English people seem to overuse, or at least use in various forms

Today I want to share with everyone a great question I got from someone in London I’m sure all of you think about these same things when you go out at night too, so let’s talk about this right now

The other day, Bernie Mac died I found this really bizarre

Sometimes life is like a soap opera, but the story I’m about to tell you is something that even my writer friends here in Los Angeles could not have made up You are truly not going to believe what I’m about to share with you

I have wanted to write this blog for so long, I really have And I know that each of you is going to either completely agree with me on this or totally disagree

So, you’re dating a woman now whose only sexual experiences have been with men that are pump and dumpers For those of you who don’t know what a pump and dumper is: it’s what I call ‘minutemen

Hope everyone is having an amazing weekend Yesterday we went to Malibu and everyone had a task at hand

I got a message from a woman tonight who told me, “I just wish I could be able to tell from a guy’s online profile whether or not we’ll have chemistry There must be a simple way to be able to read a profile and know if we’re going to get along

How many times have you been out and passed your phone number to a person

Cut that meat Hey Bill – You're my favorite accountant