Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?" and “Healing Your Aloneness.” She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or email her at margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available.
Articles by this Author
Why Do You Blame?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/22/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Take a moment to think about who you blame for your feelings of hurt, anger, resentment, aloneness, emptiness, loneliness, helplessness, inadequacy, shame, depression, anxiety, fear, and so on What is really going on inside when you blame someone else for your feelings
Caring: For Outcomes or For Joy
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/10/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Many people have the ability to truly care and receive joy when caring from the heart Yet even very caring people sometimes find themselves using caring as a form of control
Relationships: Letting Go of Problem Solving
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"We never seem to be able to solve any problems," Kaylee told me in a phone session "Every time we sit down to solve a problem, we end up fighting
Relationships: Letting Go of Problem Solving
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"We never seem to be able to solve any problems," Kaylee told me in a phone session "Every time we sit down to solve a problem, we end up fighting
Do You Feel Free?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/29/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"…no one ever pushes you toward freedom You need to take that for yourself
Relationships: The Power of Good Will
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/19/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Research into good marriages indicates that the most important choice healthy couples make is to have good will toward each other This may seems like a simple requirement, yet many couples have anything but good will toward each other
How Can I Stop Feeling Jealous?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/4/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"I know that my boyfriend loves me, but he has a lot of women friends I don't get why he has to have so many women friends
You're Not Meeting My Needs
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/2/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
"Sandra wants to end our marriage," Ted told me in our phone session "She says that I am not meeting her needs
Emotional Intimacy
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/21/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Experiencing emotional intimacy with others is one of the most satisfying experiences of life Emotional intimacy, or a sense of deep connection with another person or a group of people, occurs when each person is completely open hearted and devoted to taking 100% responsibility for their own feelings and needs
Gratitude vs. Complaining
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/14/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"All happy people are grateful Ungrateful people cannot be happy
The Wanting Mind, Part 1
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/8/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"This force [that keeps us always wanting] is known in several Buddhist traditions as the Wanting Mind The Wanting Mind is always craving an experience different from the one it currently has
Is Your Relationship Suffering From Emotional Infidelity?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Emotional infidelity occurs when you or your partner become emotionally connected with someone outside your relationship, either in person or on the Internet
How dangerous to a marriage or committed relationship is emotional infidelity
7 Step "Tongue-in-Cheek" Guide to Never Having an Experience of God
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 07/17/2008
- Religion
- Unrated
Are you one of those people who secretly wish you believed in God Or are you one of those people who believe in God in an abstract way rather than a personal way
Problems Sleeping?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 07/12/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Insomnia is quite common in our society While there many different reasons for sleep problems - such as poor diet, too much sugar and refined carbohydrates, too much caffeine, or lack of exercise - I want to share two major causes and the solutions to these
Diffusing Anger or Feeding the Flames
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 07/8/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Have you ever had an argument with someone - a partner, spouse, close friend, child, parent or other relative, or a business associate - that started small and spiraled into an intense conflict Have you ever scratched your head, wondering how it got so out of control
Are You Enmeshed With Your Children?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 06/28/2008
- Parenting
- Unrated
The Encarta World English Dictionary defines "enmesh" as "to entangle somebody or something in something from which it is difficult to be extricated or separated"
Are you entangled with your children in a way that is limiting both you and your children
7 Step Guide to Creating a Life of Substance Abuse
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 06/23/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
While it is probable that no one consciously sets out to create a life of substance abuse, those who end up addicted to substances are choosing certain thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors that will likely end up leading to some form of substance abuse - drugs, alcohol, nicotine, food, junk food, sugar, and/or caffeine
Self-Help: Healing Your Broken Heart
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 06/14/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Haley, 38, consulted with me because her boyfriend had just broken up with her Shocked and broken-hearted, she tearfully told me about how wonderful he was and about how she didn't know how she could survive this break up
7 Step Guide To Staying Completely Stuck In Your Life
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 06/2/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
Are you stuck in your life Do you receive some satisfaction from staying stuck and from no one being able to help you get unstuck
Fear Of Death
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 06/1/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"The modern tradition of equating death with an ensuing nothingness can be abandoned For there is no reason to believe that human death severs the quality of the oneness in the universe
Marriage Advice: Love And Fairness
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 05/27/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
"Love has nothing to do with fairness Love is Love
Following A Child's Lead
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 05/20/2008
- Parenting
- Unrated
How long should your child breast-feed
Should your child go to pre-school
Self Improvement: Leisure Time, Retirement Time
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 05/13/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
You've worked all your life and now you are looking forward to retirement How will you spend your time
Why Do So Many People Lack Integrity?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 05/5/2008
- Self Help
- Unrated
"By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascents to the Divine Perfection; by the abuse and wrong application of thought, he descents below the level of the beast Between these two extremes are all the grades of character, and man is their maker and master